A social work colleague (not at St Christopher’s) was asked yesterday by a doctor to see an in-patient who seemed to be depressed: he was crying all the time. She found out that the day before he’d had a day out to attend the funeral of his wife of 48 years; not depression, just reasonable sadness. Still, better get a psychiatrist to see him just in case.
This connects for me with the Guardian obituary for Bob Sang, the campaigner for patient and public involvement in health and social care. I quotes a view that I apply to bereavement care (particularly in the little contretemps that has led to a 4-page ‘debate’ in the latest Bereavement Care Journal) and social work in general. They’re right to say this is an important issue. Sang is quoted as saying:
A deep, taken-for-granted assumption in our culture is that if you have a ‘problem’ or ‘need’, you get a label: ‘patient’, ‘user’, ‘client’, ‘sick’, ’disabled’, ‘handicapped’. One consequence of such labelling is the separation of citizens into categories and groups defined by the service models that have been constructed to ‘meet this need/problem’.
Exactly what I think about bereavement needs assessment. Psychology, counselling, psychiatry and, following along behind, social work, look at the problems they come across, see that people have difficulties, and set up services based on the assumption that people need help with the problem. Therefore, in the case of the debate in Bereavement Care, they establish bereavement risk assessment or, the latest thing, bereavement needs assessment. The document I was reviewing says some relative (one of probably many) should be assessed for their bereavement needs for every patient who goes through a hospice, including collecting up information from the nurses who were caring for the patient about how whether they showed various mainly negative behaviour traits. Bereavement is a perfectly natural corollary of love, commitment and connection: we should not see it as one of Bob Sang’s problems or needs.
All the research says that most people do not need more bereavement support than good information and if you offer it at a point when they need it, most of the rest will accept it. So why assess everybody for it? Note that this everybody is you and me; we were not the patients who agreed to receive palliative care, and we have not given ‘informed consent’ as the jargon has it, to having our bereavement need checked out by the collection of information and covert observation about us. Just provide good information, a good service and make sure people can have access to it when they need it.
Bob Sang’s answer, and mine in this case, would be that we do this because we in the people-working professions, have defined something perfectly natural as a problem because we have sometimes come across people who have problems with it. There’s a bigger risk that we’re propagating unnecessary involvement in services than the risk people run by feeling sad when someone important dies.
Bereavement Care journal, having developed from small beginnings and still run by Cruse, has this year been taken over by Routledge and is becoming a much more substantial affair; it always was authoritative and well worth reading.
Its website: http://www.crusebereavementcare.org.uk/ber_care.htm
The Guardian obituary of Bob Sang: http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2009/jul/02/bob-sang-obituary