A newly published study about young carers includes some material about bereavement when caring responsibilities end:
Bereavement and the death of the person being supported, whilst leading to the end of current caring responsibilities, can leave young adults with needs that require resolution such as emotional support or counselling, making practical arrangements following a death,change of house tenancy, securing appropriate benefits, and continuing with or making new plans for their future education, training or employment. These young adult carers experience a different type of transition whereby their role and in some cases their identity, which has been tied up with caring, have changed requiring them to adjust to a different lifestyle and family circumstances as well as adapt to their loss. Only one participant in our sample had ceased caring due to bereavement. Sarah (aged 18) had lived with her grandmother since birth and took on caring tasks for her grandmother as her health deteriorated three years earlier. During that period Sarah missed a good deal of school, which impacted on her examination results. She is now learning to cope on her own with some limited support from extended family but is no longer eligible to attend a young carers project for formal support as this stops for those aged 18 years and above (p 29).
There’s also an interesting point made by a young carer about the effect of a death of someone else in the family on the caring relationship
“…when she became ill, before that we were, we were really quite close because obviously dad’s death brought us very close together and I’ve kind of always been a mummy’s girl but now it’s just, now it’s just kind of like changed like we, I, don’t know the roles have just
reversed and I find that really hard to cope with because I’m not used to that, I’m not used to being the carer, well I am a carer inside, but I’m not the one that wants to be caring for their mum”. (Becky, aged 18)
(p 40)
Becker, F. and Becker, S. (2008) Young Adult Carers in the UK: Experiences, Needs and Services for Carers aged 16-24. London: The Princess Royal Trust for Carers.
It’s on the internet at: http://static.carers.org/files/yac20report-final-241008-3787.pdf
A study by the same authors for the government’s official body on rural life, providing more general evidence about young carers particularly in rural settings, with lots of statistics, but no material about death and dying, is:
Becker, F. and Becker, S. (2008)Service needs and delivery following the onset of caring amongst children and young adults: evidenced based review. Cheltenham: Commission for Rural Communities.
Also on the internet at: http://www.ruralcommunities.gov.uk/files/CRC%20web36%20YCIRE.pdf
It might be that bereavement doesn’t come up there because bereavement services in rural areas are also not so good.